Sometimes I want to write about something because its just happened and struck at my mind or heart or both with some force but I'm not sure whether I should because its really not my business.
I'm having one of those moments now.
So I search for a way to write about it in a cryptic metaphorical manner so its not an extreme breach of some moral I have somewhere. I'd make a terrible magazine journalist wouldn't I?
But I can't find a cryptic metaphorical solution, Unfortunately.
A relationship has ended, or changed, depending on how broadly scaled you look at relationships...
On a purely rational level its a somewhat interesting issue, for me, because I can sympathize with both of the people involved. A friend who has been hurt and is now left in confusion and distress... Another friend who has caused the hurt but whose experiences I can relate to and actions I can understand to a certain extent, even if I never behaved the same way.
Of course I only know part of the story and the roles are a little different compared to the experience of my own I somewhat relate it to, but many of the stress points of the relationship are very familiar.
I do, however, feel that she who has gotten the rotten half of the deal does not deserve it, she has been trying so hard, has grown so much in the time I've known her... Things seemed to be moving in the right direction. Its such a shame that such a thing had to happen now.
I just hope she has the strength to pull herself through it.
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