the answers

Funny... Now that I've finished creating my ultimate weapon against the lies... I don't feel so bad about the whole situation... Maybe its a "the truth shall set you free" kinda moment...
Anyway... I have suffered through over 3 hours of audio, and come out with 4 minutes and 30 seconds of... Proof.
It wasn't a good recording overall, but I managed to clean up many relevant parts of it, enough that they could be understood... And clipped them out, and compiled them...

So lets go over those carefully worded questions again...

Have you told (the other woman) that you will leave me?
She answered "I told her that nothing was certain but that was a while ago"
When I said "I recently heard you say 'you know I'm gonna leave her'... " She came up with this lovely story about them planning for her to go on holiday over there one day, and saying that she was going to leave (our child) here at home. She almost had me convinced, too... She is good...
I have in my little audio masterpiece, the words "you know I'm gonna leave her"It doesn't sound like she is talking about a child.

Have you told (the other woman) that you love her?
She answered "yes, a while back"... Upon further questioning she said she tells her she loves her but means it as a friend.
In my audio, which is only a couple of days old.. I have her saying "I love you" and.. just as a bonus.. "I'm sorry, I'm sorry... do you still love me?" -I believe this was because she fell asleep while they were talking.

Have you discussed details of our arguments/disagreements with (the other
woman)?
She answered "only little things like that we argued"
Its not in my masterpiece... But I do have in the original audio a large portion in which she describes an argument we had the day before in great detail... So its there if I need it.

Have you discussed your feelings for, and possible plans of the future with (the other woman) with your mother?
Her answer was that she had told her mother a while back that she wasn't sure if she had feelings...
I may accept this... The only evidence I have to suggest otherwise is some chat logs from a friend, which she has claimed to be fake.

Have you discussed you future with (the other woman) if/when you are with her?
She said- I'm not sure what you mean... Upon explanation of what I meant (for example... how much you could be earning together if you were both working) She said "sometimes she wants to say 'what if'... kinda like a role-playing thing...
I have in audio her talking about a job someone else has that is good, then going on to say that if (the other woman) was doing her work, and she took the aforementioned job, that they would be earning heaps of money.. did not sound like it was initiated by (the other woman) saying what if...

Have you ever had any form of cybersex/phonesex etc?
She replied... Only a couple of times just typing not masturbating.
I have in my soundfile the unmistakable sounds of masturbation... I know what she sounds like when she's doing that... Its a sound I used to make her make, lol... And following that, the mumbled the words "mwhoa... wore me out haha... did you cum baby?" Now if that isn't proof of cybersex... what is? A video couldn't do much better :P

If you answered yes to any of these, when were you going to tell me?
She said "I didn't think most of this stuff would be a problem, because its online, I guess" (of course the questions she answered at least half truthfully she would think that about.)


So, she didn't pay much attention to the letter attached to the questions did she... The part that said... "Assume I know the answers" and "don't underestimate me"