plans and passport!

Seems she spent most of yesterday morning figuring out their budget if (the other woman) moves here, or if She moves there.
And I mean, they didn't just touch on the subject... Its a continuing topic for hours!
How much they could each be earning, how much she would need for transport to and from work, how much debt (the other woman) has that needs paying... etc etc...
They go into so much detail.. I've asked about this topic before and she has always claimed it was a 'what if' that (the other woman) insisted on doing... I find that hard to believe on 2 counts... 1-a hypothetical that is not expected to happen would not normally go into so much detail and 2-I know She enjoys working out budgets for things if she is excited about or looking forward to them, so I doubt it took much insistence from (the other woman).

I'm currently listening to audio from earlier this morning, she's talking about going on a plane (to go over there). Saying that she's not sure if she would be able to go by herself because she is scared of flying, and might get there and freak out and not be able to get on the plane.

I looked through her phone text messages while she was napping... Most of her sent messages were deleted but there were many in her inbox...
A few of those were along the lines of "I'm so wet baby" and "omg im freaking out at work please tell me we're ok" and various love messages, and some saying she will need to work because (the other woman) is having money problems.
There was a couple sent still there though... Several "I'll be home soon" type messages... One was her telling (the other woman) that she would have the money for a passport this week, and would find the money for a ticket, borrow it if she has to, sell everything she owns if she has to...
There was also one telling her the only course she could do was IT (as I am doing) because she can do it online and maybe finish it quickly, aplogising if she wakes her up, asking her if she should do the course...
I did assume when we were there the reason she decided not to enroll for anything (she made a big deal about the courses all running for too long, she would only do something that went for say 6 weeks...) was because she didn't want to commit herself to anything, because she would probably be leaving soon... Guess I was right.